It's been two weeks today since we sold the cows, and we've been gradually adjusting to our new normal. We're still feeling good about our decision, but there have been adjustments.
I will say, it's been easier in some ways than we expected, and harder in others! The hardest part for me has been giving up my time at home. Although we were very tied down with the cows, we often had flexible time throughout the day for running errands, etc. That has changed a bit and is an adjustment, but we'll figure it out! I need to be more intentional about meal planning, cleaning, laundry etc. Jim still has some manure to haul and projects that he would like to tackle, and will have to adjust to the same thing.
I headed off to a new job almost two weeks ago, working in the office at a feed mill. I'm enjoying being able to remain a part of the ag community and I'm also enjoying the work that I've been doing. I have a LOT to learn, but thankfully the people there have been very patient with my many, many questions!
Jim has been trying out a few things and hasn't decided for sure which direction he would like to go. He will find a good fit I'm sure, but it might take a little time.
The dogs and cats may have the hardest adjustment of all! They were used to having us around all day and would enjoy many ear scratches or belly rubs, and sneak treats throughout the day. Snickers has, in the past few months, bedded down in a pile of straw and corn fodder in the cow stable. When the barn was full of cows, it was nice and cozy even on the coldest of days. When Jim cleaned out the stalls, he left her little pile in place so that she would have a comfy bed. She could easily sleep upstairs in the straw with Murphy and Phoebe, but she chooses this...
I'm glad things are going well at the new job. There's always a learning curve for new things. I'm sure all of you - animals and humans - will find the new normal and settle in. My best to you all!
ReplyDeleteI am glad you are enjoying your new job. Its such a huge step, but I know you are following God's leading so He is going before you every step of the way.
ReplyDeleteI am glad you updated, I have been praying and wanted to know how both you and Jim are now.
Blessings to you both.
Adjustments are more difficult on the animals I think than on us. I'm hoping that with spring coming soon, and with the days getting longer, that the changes will be easier for all of you and that you will have more time to be with the pets as you work outdoors. I pray that Jim finds the right job for him, something that he loves to do.
ReplyDeleteKeeping you in my prayers.
Hugs, Julia
Just found your blog about 1 1/2 yrs ago and have enjoyed it. We have a small family diary farm in MD, but my life was backwards to yours being that I worked off the farm, at a feed and farm supply store for 31 years and when it got sold I came home to the farm to help and watch my grandchildren. It is certainly different being around the house all the time not that I am complaining but hey it is a change.
ReplyDeleteGood luck in your new job.
Aww.. that is one sweet pup!!
ReplyDeleteFunny how our four legged friends also have a routine and comfort zones! They sure do act like little people sometimes :)
Happy for you to have a new job that you enjoy, and I pray that your hubby finds something that he enjoys as well.
Warm wishes..
~K.
I have wondered how you were doing these last few days. What a sea change in your lives, but I know you are up to it!
ReplyDeleteHello from Texas...Hope you enjoy your new lives...change can be difficult, for sure.
ReplyDeleteI’ll be following along on your journey...
Hugs
Donna
Sounds like things are going well. I bet the animals are a bit confused, but they will get the hang of it. For meal planning I highly recommend sitting down on Sunday and coming up with a menu for the week. It seems simple, but it has made a world of difference for me. Stay warm and keep positive.
ReplyDeleteI’m sure this is a very bittersweet time as you adjust. I wish you the best and hope things go as well as possible for you and your family. It’s hard to say goodbye to the cows.
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